Healing Yourself -

Hi Folks - !

How's Life?!

Smile - and agree that it's actually better without listing out how it could have been worse!Things can be good just by themselves without any baggage of comparision.

There are some nice questions and let's look at them first.

Ishani asks -'How do we heal people?

Tricky stuff, is Ho'oponopono!

The good Doctor first accepted that the criminal insanity in those inmates was an outer manifestation of the violence that was deep within his own self.

This is the most important part.

We heal ourselves.

You don't think of 'healing' Nelson Mandela or Roger Federer.

(Hey - it's tough to find living examples! Send me a few -!)

Only those people come in our vision who have something common with us at a surface or a deep level.

You may think of someone who nags constantly, is angry, vicious, depressing company, negative, a terrorist -

If you want to heal - say, a suicide bomber- it does not mean you have an affinity for him. Its just that you understand his compulsions because you have felt his anger/ helplessness/ recklessness at some some point of time in your life's journey so far.

So go on and do the Ho'oponopono on a trial basis, you will see the change in yourself too.

You can do it for as long as it is possible to do.

During your daily commute, while waiting for something/someone, early in the morning or before dozing off to sleep -

That's enough, just try to be consistent.

What we need to understand is that we are all connected even though we may not see the connection in the parametres that we are used to seeing.

A drop of Ganges at Gangotri, its source is called Ganges.

Another, totally different one where she meets the sea is also Ganges.

It's the source which is the same, just as the source of all of us - terrorists, murders, philanthropists, saints and gods - is also the same.

So what the good doctor was doing was, to heal that violence/fury/despair within his own self which had appeared in another.

On a practical level, if you want to heal someone of say, their short-temperedness, check - and heal the same within your own self.

Those people may be angry for a reason you may not know or find trivial - for them, it's good enough.

Now say 'I'm Sorry', 'Please Forgive Me', 'Thank You' and I Love You' as sincerely as you can and as many times as you can.

Some times, you may find yourself saying only the first 2 lines.

Or the first 3 - or all 4.

Trust your sub-conscious - which is very wise, and go with the flow.

It is your own clutter that you will be getting rid of.

Now for the next one, Vaishali's, which came in mail and I'm reproducing -

'I have a question on your blog of July 01, 2010 - How Universe helps clear debts.

Its greaaaaat to know your understanding and interpretation of the incidence of stolen camera. This is indeed a new insight for me to look at life from this angle. However, there’s one thing that I could not understand ‘why you requested someone else (in this case, your cousin Ranjana) to contact your spiritual guide/master? ‘

As per my understanding, each one of us can ‘be in contact’ / ‘communicate’ with our own spiritual master guide very easily?

At the time of my PLR session with you, I had a very clear experience of the presence and guidance of my spiritual master guide. Also, since then, I have developed this habit of communicating with him all my thoughts / problems, and I am very glad to share with you, that I am getting help every time in an amazing way. I will definitely share some of it with you.'

Awesome, isn't it?!

To be able to stay in touch with your own Spirit Guide whose work it is to make sure you are on your chosen path, learning the lessons that you intend to.

Many of my PLR clients come for all kinds of stuff - curiosity, various health, work and relationship issues, but along with those answers, they also go back clearer about their purpose of life.

I am in touch with my own guide too - and get messages and scoldings and am sent scurrying for the most amazing tasks totally unconnected to me!

Here, I had lost someone else's camera - and in locating it, my own wallet too!

The wallet did not bother me much (though I was curious) as I 'knew' my cards would not be misused and I had been 'made ' to take out the $100 notes the day before!

Trupti's camera certainly muddled me and I wanted the answers from someone totally unconnected.

However, it was a short-cut and I should not use it!

Thanks for the message!

Today's post was supposed to be on the effects of lack of self -esteem on one's thoughts and health.

There seems to be some kind of an epidemic - one gets carried away by the expectations of others - and our own too, and then the burden becomes way too heavy to carry.

The list of illnesses is long and scary, and we are doing this to ourselves, no one is doing it to us.

More on this, next time!

Share your thoughts and views on this as well as your interesting experiences of out -of - ordinary help, of your guides - !

Bye for now, have a great fortnight.