Hi Folks!
How is life?!
I want to share a couple of interesting insights from some Past Life Regression sessions I took in the last few months.
These two cases are to do with the man-woman relationship, what seems so right, and the painful question as to why, then, is it so wrong?
A young lady wanted to know why she was so much in love with a married man and unable to leave him.
They had met when he was single, but though he professed his love, he had gone ahead and married someone else.
They still met and he claimed to love her but was unwilling to upset his marital life in any way.
Her obsession with him had taken a toll on her career which was stagnant.
She went into three past lives in which she was happily married to him, they had loved each other to begin with, but in each, he had killed her.
Then she located the answer.
She saw them very much in love, getting married in a church.
They held each-other's hands and made a pact -
'We will always be together in every life-time'.
That past life had been fulfilling for both and she had died naturally, but in all the future ones, he had felt constricted as there had been no new learning and no growth.
Each time he had killed her, he had repented bitterly, but repeated the pattern because she would not let him go.
I asked her how her lives with him had been for her, and she said they had been wonderful - though she had suspected that he had been cheating on her.
What had been her purpose of life with him and how much of it had she achieved?
She scanned longer for this answer and had to admit that there had been no purpose and no growth at all.
They were just meaningless, wasted lives in terms of learning as there were no challenges.
She agreed to free him from the pact. He apologized for killing her in those past lives.
When I progressed her to a few years later in this life, she saw herself married to a loving man and also doing well in her career.
Now for the other story.
A man came with simple questions about his career growth, promotions and money.
Satisfied with the answers he got, he wanted to see what his future probabilities were.
Five years from now, he had got his promotions and his son was in a wonderful job.
Ten years later - ?
His jaw dropped.
'There is someone else in my life' - he was shocked.
He had no problems with his wife, in fact, he had not mentioned her even remotely as an ' issue' to be resolved.
I told him to go to a past life with the lady who was coming into his life ten years later.
' She is a cow', he said, 'and I am her Master'.
She loved her master very much.
He gave her fodder and water because she gave very good milk which made him a lot of money.
I called them face to face and made him (as he was in that past life) ask her to say whatever she felt.
Her answer was very touching -
'Sar pe kabhi haath nahin rakkha', she said.-
You never patted me on the head.
Never appreciated, never loved -
I made him feel what she felt and he was ashamed of his insensitivity.
He knelt and asked her forgiveness, hugged her and kissed her forehead and the gentle, large-hearted cow licked his face and forgave him.
After they had left, I asked him to go ahead again by ten years and check -
No affair.
I have told him to call me after ten years and tell me if he comes across any charming lady who could be his past life's four-legged friend!
Now for my insights!
According to my experience as a PLR Therapist, there seem to be many more women getting involved in affairs with married men than the other way round.
Each case has come out with unique circumstances for such behaviour and in each, the realization was to let go of the attachment / ego / vengeance / lust and become self - reliant, value yourself more, to learn to control your mind and be less self - indulgent.
If you were meant to marry someone, you would have.
If he is already married / in a serious relationship, it would be wise not to get involved even covertly.
The reason why someone gets attracted to you may not always be love.
It could be lust or power - play or comfort level, or plain genuine appreciation as in the case of the devoted cow.
Now imagine our man's reaction if a lady seems interested in him.
He would be in his late 40s, maybe balding a bit, has a paunch and wonders if women still find him attractive.
He would obviously forget his wife and children and take his chance, not knowing why the lady has come into his orbit.
The lady does not know either.
All that she would want is a pat on the back, a word of appreciation, some praise in front of colleagues.
She may have no intention of having an affair or breaking his marriage, but the man would not believe it.
One can argue about how loving a married man or someone else as a married man seems so right till the cows come home, it still does not make it so.
The payment for keeping another person from fulfilling his / her karmic choices with their spouse is pretty harsh.
It is not worth the secretiveness or excitement.
Go inside.
Know yourself, your core issues, what drives you, all that you are a slave of , people or things you cannot do without.
Meditate.
Believe in yourself, that you deserve someone better, who can belong only to you as you would to him / her.
Trust yourself , and love yourself.
Life is beautiful even more when you remove the attached strings.
How is life?!
I want to share a couple of interesting insights from some Past Life Regression sessions I took in the last few months.
These two cases are to do with the man-woman relationship, what seems so right, and the painful question as to why, then, is it so wrong?
A young lady wanted to know why she was so much in love with a married man and unable to leave him.
They had met when he was single, but though he professed his love, he had gone ahead and married someone else.
They still met and he claimed to love her but was unwilling to upset his marital life in any way.
Her obsession with him had taken a toll on her career which was stagnant.
She went into three past lives in which she was happily married to him, they had loved each other to begin with, but in each, he had killed her.
Then she located the answer.
She saw them very much in love, getting married in a church.
They held each-other's hands and made a pact -
'We will always be together in every life-time'.
That past life had been fulfilling for both and she had died naturally, but in all the future ones, he had felt constricted as there had been no new learning and no growth.
Each time he had killed her, he had repented bitterly, but repeated the pattern because she would not let him go.
I asked her how her lives with him had been for her, and she said they had been wonderful - though she had suspected that he had been cheating on her.
What had been her purpose of life with him and how much of it had she achieved?
She scanned longer for this answer and had to admit that there had been no purpose and no growth at all.
They were just meaningless, wasted lives in terms of learning as there were no challenges.
She agreed to free him from the pact. He apologized for killing her in those past lives.
When I progressed her to a few years later in this life, she saw herself married to a loving man and also doing well in her career.
Now for the other story.
A man came with simple questions about his career growth, promotions and money.
Satisfied with the answers he got, he wanted to see what his future probabilities were.
Five years from now, he had got his promotions and his son was in a wonderful job.
Ten years later - ?
His jaw dropped.
'There is someone else in my life' - he was shocked.
He had no problems with his wife, in fact, he had not mentioned her even remotely as an ' issue' to be resolved.
I told him to go to a past life with the lady who was coming into his life ten years later.
' She is a cow', he said, 'and I am her Master'.
She loved her master very much.
He gave her fodder and water because she gave very good milk which made him a lot of money.
I called them face to face and made him (as he was in that past life) ask her to say whatever she felt.
Her answer was very touching -
'Sar pe kabhi haath nahin rakkha', she said.-
You never patted me on the head.
Never appreciated, never loved -
I made him feel what she felt and he was ashamed of his insensitivity.
He knelt and asked her forgiveness, hugged her and kissed her forehead and the gentle, large-hearted cow licked his face and forgave him.
After they had left, I asked him to go ahead again by ten years and check -
No affair.
I have told him to call me after ten years and tell me if he comes across any charming lady who could be his past life's four-legged friend!
Now for my insights!
According to my experience as a PLR Therapist, there seem to be many more women getting involved in affairs with married men than the other way round.
Each case has come out with unique circumstances for such behaviour and in each, the realization was to let go of the attachment / ego / vengeance / lust and become self - reliant, value yourself more, to learn to control your mind and be less self - indulgent.
If you were meant to marry someone, you would have.
If he is already married / in a serious relationship, it would be wise not to get involved even covertly.
The reason why someone gets attracted to you may not always be love.
It could be lust or power - play or comfort level, or plain genuine appreciation as in the case of the devoted cow.
Now imagine our man's reaction if a lady seems interested in him.
He would be in his late 40s, maybe balding a bit, has a paunch and wonders if women still find him attractive.
He would obviously forget his wife and children and take his chance, not knowing why the lady has come into his orbit.
The lady does not know either.
All that she would want is a pat on the back, a word of appreciation, some praise in front of colleagues.
She may have no intention of having an affair or breaking his marriage, but the man would not believe it.
One can argue about how loving a married man or someone else as a married man seems so right till the cows come home, it still does not make it so.
The payment for keeping another person from fulfilling his / her karmic choices with their spouse is pretty harsh.
It is not worth the secretiveness or excitement.
Go inside.
Know yourself, your core issues, what drives you, all that you are a slave of , people or things you cannot do without.
Meditate.
Believe in yourself, that you deserve someone better, who can belong only to you as you would to him / her.
Trust yourself , and love yourself.
Life is beautiful even more when you remove the attached strings.
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