Sunday, December 25, 2016

Draw a line and Move on -

Hi Folks !
How are you and how's Life ?

I have been away for a long time!
Actually, the whole year has been delightful and busy and I met up with some great, lovely friends !

You know, some wonderful things happen to you if you let them.
If you don't plan to the last, tiniest bit and just wish and then let it be.
If you make a wish and just send it away.

We live with blinkers of whatever information we have, believing it to be total and complete.
Usually, it is only a part of the whole.
We worry and brood and fret constantly because we think we should, for the outcome to be of our choice.

After a while, the whole truth emerges and we are either pleasantly surprised or thoroughly shocked.
If we have invested a lot, emotionally, have come to depend on an outcome suitable to us, the end result is shattering.

Has it happened to you in your relationships ?
They could be with your mother or father or siblings or children or friends, husband or lover -

You took someone for granted - there was no reason not to, they did too, but now after so many months / years - you can't recognize the person any more.

How can you get out of this without bleeding any more than you are ?

The  most important thing to understand is that each one of us has planned this life with other people for mutual growth.

We made agreements with certain mutually chosen members of our soul family to even out past baggage, evolve and have fun.

There is one relationship which comes in for a lot of condemnation and censure and that is of the parent and the child.
Or to be more precise, in majority of cases, mother and the child.

A mother is revered as a Goddess in India and in many cultures around the world too, she has a special place of reverence.

The burden of expectations on her is tremendous.

What I have discovered in my Past Life Regression Therapy sessions is that, this relationship is also determined by mutual consent before taking birth.

There are indifferent, short tempered, abusive, cruel mothers and then there are supportive, rock - solid ones.
Those who care and encourage and those who undermine a child's confidence.

In some cases, the soul has remained lazy, indifferent, even sly and not fulfilled the tasks it had set for itself for those lifetimes, messing up others' plans too.

In other cases, the child is just getting back what it had done to her in one or more previous life times as the more powerful parent.

This goes for real parents, adopted parents and step ones too.

So in such cases, there is either a Karmic debt being paid off and one has to learn to be docile / obedient /let go, or be active / hard working and grow faster and move on to be on one's own.

When there is support, love and caring, we never question it, nor examine our own attitude as we take it for granted.

It is time to do that.
The agreement has been on both sides, and it has not been to suffer one's whole life.

Maybe it is to move out and stand on one's own feet, stop depending and demanding.

In any relationship, there are 2 parties, we and ' they'.
We have complete control over one of them - on ourselves, our own thoughts and behaviour.

Whether it is your relationship with your parent or spouse or child, you don't own them.
And do not let them own you.

Draw a line mentally, between such a person and you, meditate, calm down, wish them a good life - and move on.

Release yourself.
You can be free when you let them go or let them be.

This would be the last post of this year.
Let's do our cleansing !

Imagine standing on a mountain top with clear views on all sides.
Allow all the pain, sadness, anguish, loss, shock, disappointment, defeat - all that is hurtful to flow out of each and every cell of each and every part of your body and every level of consciousness.
Just say you are ready to let go and it will.

Feel the lightness of being.
Once you check and feel that all the negativity is gone, allow a huge ball of golden light to descend from the heaven close to your heart, enter it and spread divine energy and healing strength and blessing into your bloodstream to go everywhere.

Thank the universe and bless and wish well on whoever comes to your mind.
The more you share, the more peace and contentment you will attract.

My love and best wishes to all of you for Christmas and the coming year.
Have fun, it's in your Life's plan !
Bye for now !

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