Is death planned or unplanned?

Hi folks !

Meeting you all after a month!

How's Life been?

It was hectic and wonderful for me.

Learnt so many new aspects of behaviour from Past Life Regression sessions!

Lets take up the questions one by one-!

Omkar wants to know how to transpond good thoughts.

I take it to mean, to give and receive.

When you are feeling happy, good about anything, feel like smiling for no reason, feeling large-hearted and forgiving and joyous, consciously say to yourself that you want others to be happy too. Whosoever flashes in front of your mind's eye, friend or enemy, human or non-human, alive or dead, give away all your wonderful feelings to them.

In doing so, you sow seeds of giving happiness to others and make place for more good things to come to you.

Then you give again !

It's actually a win-win situation for all!

In giving away these powerful vibrations of joy and peace, one also rids onself of layers of grossness of self-centred thought and behaviour.

Its the same in receiving.

Someone may be giving you Metta Bhavana, thoughts of loving kindness, and though not aware of the fact, you may still come up with a happy memory connected to them.

Keep giving gratitude to all for all the goodness they are sending your way.

Your awareness will grow.

You will feel calm and peaceful even in tough circumstances.

Now let's take Arun's query-

I am sorry to hear about his friend who passed away so early.

My sympathies are for those left behind.

He's asked a very important question-

Are there unplanned or uneventful deaths?

Or is everything planned and decided?

Go back to the post on Pre- Birth Choices and Agreements.

One may choose a certain task for oneself to be accomplishd in a lifetime.

One chooses a partner and makes an agreement.

It may include other members of the family too.

Lets take an example.

There is a boy who has a long history over many lifetimes, of laziness and emotional manipulation to ensure he does no work.

He now wants to change.

'A' agrees to be his father to help him out of his lethargy.

He also wants to get rid of his short temper and be a more open and loving father to him.

No one remembers these self-chosen exams so the father may continue to nag and blow up according to his old pattern.

The boy uses this as an excuse and withdraws in a shell and becomes a slob.

The Sub- Conscious mind is the repository of all the deeds, impressions, decisions of all the past lives and the lives in-between.

So at a level not in the conscious realm, the father may realise that the script isn't going the right way at all.

He's unable to change his habit-pattern of shouting at the boy or putting him down.

And the boy is looking for excuses to not do anything at all.

To achieve the boy's wish of standing on his own feet, the father may then decide to withdraw.

It could be a heart-attack, a stroke or an accident.

This is going to shake up the son and soon, he will have to make an effort to study or work.

This choice of withdrawing mid-way is done after a lot of consultation with one's Spiritual guides and Masters.

It is gone into in depth, all consequences thought over for many months and then the decision taken because the father's, the mother's and a few other people's agreements are also involved.

In case the boy still does not learn, he will have to choose a difficult life of poverty the next time around, when he has to work right from the beginning.

Yes, I have had a case like that when the father came and explained to the mother that this is what he had consciously done.

Death is intriguing, to say the least!

One can not say for sure which was planned and which one was natural!

You can definitely help in whichever way you can.

Omkar has mentioned Garud Purana.

I googled it-

It has a bit of a scary list of life after death!

Our ancestors knew a lot, thats for sure!

Keep sowing seeds of happiness, forgiveness, love and gratitude.

It becomes a habit in no time.

You will feel lighter and peaceful.