On Carping and Setting Free -

Hi Folks!
How's life?

I am back quicker, as I had promised!

I am, first of all, registering a complaint against my husband.
Those who have been with this blog since at least the last couple of years, would know that he died on the Golf Course one fine afternoon.
(Refer to the post -'What Death Does').

Doing the work I do, taking people into their past lives to resolve their current issues so that they can move towards the purpose of their life, there are many occasions when I have taken some to meet their loved ones who have died.

I have been in touch with my husband too, through a couple of close people. 
The first time he came, he was both happy and sad. He was yet to meet his Spiritual Master (who he always met eagerly in every session that I had taken for him here). He was with his Dad and still settling down. 
In the next couple of visits, he was more forthcoming.
He said, while on earth, he had paid utmost attention to his physical health, not missing a single day's long walk, an hour's yoga and pranayam. He had maintained the correct weight, his food habits had been perfect. He'd given up smoking many years ago, took no more than a drink a day.

Then why the blocked arteries?

It was my mindset, he said, my thought pattern which I refused to change even after learning so much through the sessions.. I took on stress where it was not required, was a perfectionist where not needed.
I should have paid more attention to the health of my mind, gone inwards to outwards, instead of the other way round.
Should have meditated correctly and more regularly.

What was he doing now?
After a period of reviewing, he has decided to stay there for a while.

After that, when called, he was usually busy.
Earlier, he was playing volleyball or some other field game. He would come immediately no doubt, but tell me that I was doing fine and my work was great and the kids are fine and there's no need to worry and can I go?

He looked younger and radiant.

 A couple of days ago, when I called him after many, many months, he came hurriedly, carrying his golf club. Of course, he said, he was there at our son's wedding and very happy too. He'd met his lovely grandson before he came here and was happy about everything.

And now, could he go for his golf?

You see?!

I could have done with some appreciation, some sympathy, but husbands will be husbands, whether here or there!

Once I'd asked if all that I have studied about the other side, the various levels and karma and everything, the PLR, is it correct or am I gypping myself and people?
As my husband, he would be factual and sharp and would mince no words if I was wrong.

No, he said, whatever I said was right and needs to be understood more widely.

I am yet to forgive him his eagerness to chase a golf ball but I am glad he is happy and now that I have cribbed to my satisfaction, I think I shall leave him to peacefully improve his handicap!


Have you felt a vacuum once an important task is completed?

About three weeks after my younger son' wedding and after I was back to my routine, I suddenly realized I had completed my last major responsibility and quite nicely at that.

After a moment's joy, I wondered what this meant for the rest of my life.
What was I meant to do?

I was lost and confused for a week or so, wondering if there is some meaning that I have to find out.
And all the time, I was giving appointments and taking PLR sessions too.

Then things became clear.
 Now that my close involvement in all the others' purpose is completed, I can concentrate on fulfilling my own Purpose of Life.

I had found out what it was a few years ago - to understand the various levels of consciousness and create awareness in others, and have been doing it since the last few years.

Through articles, talks and PLR sessions!
I felt silly, I was wasting time trying to feel sorry and lost and confused whereas I had already started on my journey when my husband was around and with his financial input and encouragement.

So now, there was no vacuum on that score.

One of the most challenging things in life is to let people, specially children go without putting any pressure on them, to let them soar without ant guilt or worry.

Whether it is children going out of town / country to study or getting married.

I have seen mothers who are extremely proud that their sons call them every day.
Or that they call their daughters every day or more than once a day.

I also see girls and boys who feel bound by their parents' love or worry to the extent that they are exasperated and start to hate them.

Let the children go, stumble, make mistakes.
You have to trust the values that you yourself have inculcated in them.
There is no need to supervise every breath they take.

To be able to do this smoothly, please learn to make friends with that stranger who resides in you.

Your own true self.

Get in touch with your likes, hobbies, and spend quality time with yourself.

The best possible way to do this is to meditate, because that's when you listen to yourself, are closest to your soul.

So long for now.

I am off to attend the 3rd National PLR Therapists' Convention, attend a pre - workshop, and later, elsewhere, give a talk and take a few sessions.

I am looking forward to being in high energy levels!

You too have a great fortnight -